"You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with."
That quote from Jim Rohn might sound like something motivational speakers throw around when they’ve run out of bar charts, but the truth is—it’s actually facts. Think about it for a second: the people you joke with, eat lunch with, send memes to, talk business with, or even just chill around on lazy weekends… all of them play a quiet but powerful role in shaping who you’re becoming.
It’s not just vibes. It’s psychology, energy, exposure, and mindset—all mixing in the same pot.
So if you're serious about growth, self-improvement, or just living a life that doesn’t look like a season finale of Survivor: Struggle Edition, then knowing who to avoid is just as important as knowing who to keep close.
Here’s a list of 7 types of people you need to stay far, far away from:
1. The “Poor Me” Personality
This person always has a story about why life is hard for them in particular. Nothing is ever their fault. If only they were taller, richer, more connected, or born in Canada—then they'd be successful.
You’ll often hear:
“If I had just one rich uncle ehn, I’d have started a business by now.”
They live in a permanent pity party and expect you to bring balloons. Run. They’re not victims of life, they’re volunteers.
2. The “I’m Just Being Realistic” Skeptic
This is the person who sees the worst-case scenario in every plan.
Trying something new?
“There’s a 91.7% chance it won’t work.”
Ignore the fact that if you do succeed, the payoff might be life-changing. This person worships “odds” and downplays dreams. They’ll kill your excitement before it even gets a chance to breathe.
3. The “People Are Stupid” Philosopher
This one thinks everyone else is dumb. Somehow, despite being “the smartest in the room,” they’re broke, bitter, and weirdly obsessed with why nobody appreciates their intelligence.
“The problem with the world is people are just dumb.”
No sir. The problem is, you haven’t figured out how to connect, not complain.
4. Mr./Ms. “I’m Too Busy”
Ah, the modern-day hero. Too busy for everything except Netflix, gossip blogs, and scrolling Instagram.
“I can’t workout. I’m just sooo busy right now.”
Spoiler alert: they’re not busy. They just prioritize comfort over growth—and if you hang around them long enough, you will too.
5. The Shortcut Addict
This person is constantly hunting for hacks instead of habits. They’re looking for that one YouTube video, trading course, or diet that’ll magically fix their life in 10 minutes.
“Any app I can use to get rich quick?”
Yeah, it’s called the Delete-Your-Fantasy app.
Success takes time, effort, and patience. This crowd will distract you with shortcuts that go nowhere.
6. The “I Never Lose” Liar
You’ve met this one. They act like they’ve never failed because, guess what? They’ve never tried. They avoid risk, never take shots, and mask their fear with arrogance.
“I’ve never failed before.”
That’s not a flex. That’s a confession. They’ll gas you up with fake confidence, but there’s no substance behind the hype.
7. The “I’m a Good Person” Martyr
This one is tricky. They’ll tell you they’re good so many times, you start to wonder if they’re trying to convince you—or themselves.
“I’m not selfish o. I care deeply about everyone!”
The loudest “good people” are often the ones with hidden knives. Watch their actions, not their affirmations.
Hopefully you didn’t see yourself in any of these. But even if you did, awareness is the first step to change.
Your circle can either fuel your growth or drown your potential. So choose wisely. Protect your space like your future depends on it—because honestly, it does.
Stay sharp. Stay focused. And above all…
Surround yourself with people who make you level up, not settle down.
Want more self-aware, no-fluff life and mindset gems like this?
Let’s grow, the intentional way.
Sage…
Maybe I might have to draft another list 🌚😂
You didn't get to me.
I was seriously waiting for mine.😩😅